Wednesday, April 7, 2010

When parenting gets hard....

You know, parenting is never easy. Good God, no. And if you are a parent who thinks it is easy, then just wait. You’ll get hit over the head one day and find yourself curled up on your bed hoping your fairy godmother can come rescue you. My fairy godmother won’t return my calls. Damn her.

I haven’t been writing too much lately, not because I’m busy with school and work (I am but that’s no excuse) but because things have been rather tense around here. For the sake of privacy, I won’t elaborate about what is going on, but it has to do with Caitlynn. Suffice it to say, she’s having a tough time. Her tough time makes it tough for Joe and I. Hence, it’s the point where parenting gets hard, really hard.

I desperately want to find some humor in our situation but it’s been difficult. Joe and I are tired at the end of each day. We have a bet going right now and the winner of the bet gets a night away from home. I hope I win, but I know Joe could use a break, too.

Miles seems to be rather unaffected by what is going on. He gets up, goes to school, comes home from school and rides his bike. He’s a happy-go-lucky kid. He gets in trouble – of course! – and it’s been fun hearing him try to rationalize his actions or blame the cat. Poor Dexter. He gets blamed for everything. It snowed yesterday. It's all Dexter's fault.

So, for the time being, I’m not able to write much or even visit some of my favorite blogs. I just don’t have the time or energy. Hope y’all understand.







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5 comments:

Argentum Vulgaris said...

Go for it Marcy, family comes first, we can wait. Hope all turns out well.

AV

Michelle said...

Parenting isn't easy, but it's worth it in the end. The stages my kids went through make my head spin. Sometimes when I look back and see the progress each child has made, I can't even believe my memories of the struggles. Then a new struggle comes up. No rest for the weary. Take care and good luck. The sun will shine soon!!!

Edie Mindell said...

I agree. Parenting can drain your energy out, but we could not complain on that one because it too can make you soar high in the skies especially when your little one hugs and whispers in your ear that he loves you. Now, that is truly very rewarding in the end. I suggest you and your husband could at least take a time-out and have a pamper-me-day activity. I can assure you it will help you get refresh physically and mentally before you start another round of parenting blues.

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Sir John said...

I understand how it goes. good luck to you.

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